A man I processed the story on the Sina Web. Just out of college girls month, > When love Entrance to play surprisingly well, actually went to a good college. After facing the assignment, and from the provinces assigned to Beijing. a month at home in the south county, where most people only dream was to Beijing.
after the month in Beijing, has been living in the dormitory authority, surnamed Liu with the girls dorm, as early as two years of work she has been mixed around a pointing to her life.
day, Liu led to a boy, said to her brother's classmates, but also from abroad to work in Beijing, let know what month. with sitting for a while, pull up some truck, the boy left. Liu asked what impression month. month had never been in love, his own included in the group had not grown up, the boy came, not from the blind date's point of view, can not really explain why they come. Liu laughed and said month insensitive, this age, and the early to consider their own fate.
month and privately think, Beijing is good, so many people, but only of their own This small bed dormitory authority. your children will grow up, parents far away, so when anything happens, even the one who did not discuss. then no longer speak, to silence the table of the state.
boy surnamed Wu, Obviously the first impression of the face is still a good month, so the two began to travel. is nothing more than a set of drawing near, to come people could not be more popular customs of those things that is very new and exciting at the Satsuki. numerous for the first time, the first time and shopping with a boy the first time, and a boy to a restaurant for dinner, the first sitting on a park bench and a boy kissing hh every month for the first time are so unforgettable.
seems to really like Xiao Wu month, every day will be sent many messages to work, every moment on the go to open, some will pick month, and then they discuss how to spend the night. very considerate month, knowing that the boy is not easy to make money, so the total out of some money-saving idea. but the two lovers together, even if together to eat a popsicle, but also feel particularly sweet.
such exchanges half a year, month and used the boy in your life.
they frequently meet, is not the time to meet would hold telephone talk late into the night.
three months ago, Xiao Wu, a business trip to Guangzhou, a walk is half a month. because the distance is too expensive, most of the time only to send text messages to report a safe, month and sometimes all night looking forward to the boy's phone, the bell rang, but also short a few words. This month's important to know the boy on their own, know that they have become accustomed to the company of others lives, so counting down the boy back to the days of computing.
Xiao Wu's work until finally the end, he said he had been Sichuan, more than a year did not return home, back to Beijing before to give a lift to see the parents, beating the month of love, and what informed it. Xiao Wu said, at most, three to five days, she no longer forbear a tolerance.
months month on the other. to wait a week, not only no phone, no one even text messages.
call his mobile phone is always off. send text messages, did not respond.
month heart to some vague, I do not know what happened. decided to take a look at the units Xiao Wu.
is after work, did not expect a small number of boys with Ng and out from the building.
month stunned moment, he has returned the original three days. to see the angry look month, Xiao Wu, quickly put her aside, saying that what people say to avoid. So with the month to Xiao Wu, a long way, start listening to Xiao Wu explained.
small Wu was not explained, but its eyes looked red month. twenty days gone, Xiao Wu, body slimmed down, is the spirit of the original board-inch, also from the chaotic tent canopy Zha.
month was anxious, repeatedly questioning.
Xiao Wu, apparently before the meeting for this did a lot of preparation, but also a little nervous at the last minute. Xiao Wu said the two things and the parents said they strongly disagreed. no agree reason is simple, too month home in the field.
month: you are overseas you are not home?
Xiao Wu said, parents have no other idea to ask him to find a parent in Beijing and has a working girl.
month silly, ask why?
Xiao Wu said, he went home to his parents after the calculations, this account is the cost of wives in Beijing. A cover more than 80 square house, also not within the ring to average price of 8,000 dollars, you have 640,000: this house even moderate decoration, it's also more than 10 million: With the house so naturally buy furniture, have tens of thousands; If we buy a car, do not they have 10 million; now named Wu in January three thousand, to save enough of these, drink or have to twenty years. home to two options Xiao Wu, a is to find those homes in Beijing and the conditions are good girls, such as parents can help buy a house down payment. If this girl can not find the will simply go home and get married in his hometown to build a house, can save a lot of money.
remarks will Yede month to breathe.
month and said bitterly: Do you hold a house to live it.
Xiao Wu said, the parents said that, in the past he had not thought of. hear them say and feel very real. He certainly likes month, but his current strength, can not be provided to the month to ensure a happy life. parents said they just got married, if you have a child to spend more. He also worried, but wanted to come want to go, I feel pain long as short-term pain, as well break up now. In addition, he now felt they were not necessarily in the character entirely appropriate. Xiao Wu also urged month, friends at the future, do not look for the field of youth we must find Beijing, and the parents work, but also willing to pay the down payment to buy a house for the children.
words have now, a month has turned into endless grief anger cavity.
that night, Xiao Wu delivery month May dormitory, there is no upstairs as usual, did not break up as usual before the kiss, no longer even hold hands. month back to the room, do not turn on the lights, just look under the corner of the curtain opened, see the boy standing alone under the street light Suozhuobozai. a moment to rush downstairs month told the boy: Do not say a house, not to mention money, as long as we love, do not care.
But just think about it. She knows they can not fight fate.
Since then, every month and struggling to work early in the evening back, guarding the phone did not ring again, and my heart was dead.
This is the month of love mm in love The abrupt end to the sweet.
love and marriage went so far as such a grim face exposed.
month not to their own future, in addition to the house and money, she thought the boy had said that day, character not and. odds. Xiao Wu is often angry and unable to help her, often have to admit to all sorts of trouble to coax comfort.
now want to come, Xiao Wu, and his retreat may also be related to excessive self-willed. If we had to know how thoughtful, maybe Xiao Wu is still around.
and boys think bit by bit, month and are often overwhelmed by depression, do not know if there is confidence to start a new relationship. that month, even more than their own once thought of death.
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not have a house, love can go far?
I think for a long time I do not know how reply, the lofty talk about love, do not give her the terrible secular help.
but this is a must return to the letter, the girl already letter of the month:
in your letter about his first love.
literature we read many wonderful love, the two brave young men abandon all worldly love.
However, in my life experiences, real life love marriage caused minimal. This is because the young season, love the boys and girls are often swallowed up by passion, and no time for anything else. marriage is different, the two should work together through life, is bound to a rational surface a variety of very practical considerations. such as the two sides of the personality, cultural background, etc. as well as the economic situation of marriage.
Therefore, there is a quote that marriage just is not enough love.
Xiao Wu's parents count of that sum for his account vulgar indeed. But most of married life is inseparable from the vulgar. three meals a day, daily necessities, illness and death, which were all very real problems, have to face. Although I do not fully agreed with the boy's escape, but at least that he was honest, he is serious to you, think of the future into account.
but everyone's requirements and commitment for the future is different. , in the way trees with branches, lower slope. Since then, although the poet, the man chant miss the pain of night and day, make this a great love poem classic, but I can only say that he is an irresponsible man.
from the letter seen, her boyfriend broke up with you, because he thought the various objective reasons. not to say that these reasons are right, but to remind parents and calculation, the young suddenly, he could be considered a hit. He did not mentally prepared. he is too young I do not know how to bear.
do so without lamenting the world state of Yan Liang. as the love of any party, has the right to choose and freedom. boys are growing. Perhaps one day, he was able to face reality with a calm state of mind, meet with the brave and his girlfriend could withstand the storm of love. When his mature voice any objection to no longer work, he will assume all the responsibility of marriage.
Now these parents warned you will be able to make him break up, at least show you the feelings of the moment there is a little fragile.
in life, some of lovers find each other along the longer coincide, the deeper feelings; some are not, with understanding of the depth, feel each other and own personality, tastes, cultural background distance. not necessarily lead to incompatible each other's shortcomings, it may just be due to differences in their respective characteristics. as an introvert, I sometimes just like the opposite sex with hot accompanied by a positive, that is complementary. but some people like quiet, the other is too busy active feel uncomfortable. Therefore, the choice of the opposite sex does not necessarily follow the law and reason, can not see each other any more attention, more like what. sometimes contributed to the combination of consistent and sometimes inconsistent generated by letting the two sides complement each other feel happy.
you think, thanks to two people have not really come together. If for young, consider not comprehensive and rushed for married , found problems after marriage, when the pain is real.
marriage can not be forced, inappropriate to separate do not entangled with each other. entanglement will not only hurt each other also hurt themselves. the real practice of self-esteem is If possible, the love of each other gradually transformed into a warm friendship, respect for each other have had the sincere friendship, in the face of difficult times, think there is such a friend can help.
people often send our young men and women emotional impact described as a family, recalled the moment, and understanding of marriage and love, to put this experience as spiritual wealth. believe that in future there will be new contacts you will also have a new boyfriend, then you know how to be more rational choice, how to face the possible dilemma; will also know how to get along with the opposite sex, but also know how to cherish and respect each other.
wish you a bright future harvest of love, happiness as in the past the sun.
Ke teacher
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a month back immediately.
Dear Ko Teacher: Hello!
I was in tears after reading your letter, filled with gratitude! Thank you for your busy schedule to say to me so much heart and soul, gave me a lot of confidence and courage, which will all my life is significant!
I suddenly see the light of your words. I think I will brave the pain of coming out.
now I'm feeling very calm, I thought to become friends with him, if it is original, I may not think so, but now I know friends of a person's meaning. I think any two people can meet in a big crowd is a kind of fate, if this became a stranger, is very regrettable. But they themselves have the courage to contact him, afraid he will think of me still thinking of him, afraid we will embarrassed, so the pressure down the idea. I am so cowardly ah!
Ke teacher, I came to Beijing after graduation, thought has also been a great impact.
Beijing is a bustling metropolis, due to pressure people become very impatient. to love, I taught my colleagues the idea is that people no longer pay attention to love, it seems that more attention is the condition, including appearance, economy and so on. they themselves also have a sense of insecurity. As a small circle of life, I am looking for a boyfriend by the way it seems that only the person. I think he is a character from the gentle kind, easy to get along with others girls, but there What is the use? so sometimes find it difficult to confusion!
I am now living arrangements of their own very full day, because I am afraid of being alone! to 25 years of age, need to really feel a love, This is a friends work can not be met.
thank you to those of us who bring confusion to help with the move!
sincerely wish you a happy life!
month and I month Also through letters, in the last letter, I told her:
to human life I do not know how many twists and turns, I can not give answers to each question, they depend on you a little bit of growth and mature. With the experience of the previous paragraph, you've matured some, you will be more mature.
Ke sure you will take a good teacher.
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